I know it can be off-putting when you see how many people are doing the thing you are doing. There are already so many counselors, business mentors, astrologers, naturopaths, hypnosis practitioners, coaches, weight loss coaches, kinesiologists, sound healers and energy workers.

It’s all been done already.

But none of them is YOU.

You are the lens that the modality shines through.

Your particular set of:

  • Past experiences
  • Personality
  • Intelligence
  • Wit
  • Humor
  • Care
  • Intention
  • Energy
  • All culminate in the lens which is you. 

It is inimitable. 

It is important. 



These are all words.

Easy to say but sometimes hard to experience.

They became my lived experience when I did the Most Wuthering Heights day ever dance troupe one year. 

We all learned the choreography as a group – the same moves, the same song. Of course, the preoccupation is with getting the moves “right”.

One week, our guide asked us to break into 2 groups. One group would perform for the other half and then swap. 

When I sat down to watch the other group I noticed that some people were nailing the choreo and some were not. 

But that was not the gold. 

The exceptional beauty of the moment for me was seeing each woman interpret the dance through her own physique. Her own way of moving and her own expression of the dance.

Every single one of them moved me to tears because in that moment I could taste the essence of them as individuals based on the way that they were all different.

It’s the way that we ARE.

WE don’t have to do anything.

We just need to BE our actual selves.

It’s the same with you and your modality. 

Yes – there are already so many people doing what you are doing. 

But none of them is you. 

It’s what you bring to the process that is so delicious. Especially to your ideal clients.

When they see you in a video, or hear your voice, or read your writing, there’s an acknowledgement, a recognition.

“Here is the energy field I need to be immersed in to grow with on this next step in my journey”

Their inner knowing senses you – recognises  your energy and wants to move ahead with you. 

They don’t care about any other practitioner in the world. 

Their energy needs your energy to make the next transformation in their life. 

In science, each element combines with other elements to make new compounds. 

If I am lead, and you are zinc and the client is calcium, each of us makes 3 different, new compounds. And each of the compounds is important and unique. (I know nothing about science – I probably just set off a stink bomb 🙂

You don’t need to try to be lead. I don’t need to be calcium. 

When we allow the layers to peel off so we can be our most true selves and then share our true self online, our future clients can find us.


This is the work.

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